Balance... To achieve enlighten in life, one must achieve balance in life...
I think...?
The one such balance in which i myself tends to lose is my control in money...
Sure, by now you should see that under normal circumstance i'm a really thrifty person who won't spend much on unnecessary (i hate spelling this word) item...
But as soon as i got the spare cash, i always seems to went on a spending spree, spending over 300 bucks in a blink of an eye... Well, considering the price of the games i buy, 300 really is quite a good bargan already but still... i really should stop spending this month...
At the mean time, seems like my friend and my girlfriend's friend(s) is having some rough time in their relationship (2 different story mind you)... Not too sure what went wrong with my friend side, but as for my girlfriend's friend(s)...
How should i put it?
Girls are creatures that live for attention... Which explains the fact they took so much time and effort to dress up... And being a boyfriend mean you gotta be ready to accept the fact that she's gonna demand quite alot of your attention on her...
Be it reasonable or not, you just gotta give her or she will find one way or another to steal it from you... From purposely calling you in the middle of your favourite world cup match to dragging you out on a date when you suppose to be having a guys-night-out... Commo guys, you know what i mean, we all been through such things...
Anyway, the problem with my girlfriend's friend(s) is that (to the best of my knowledge so far), girl demand guy attention more than the guy can give, guy demand his life back from her, they break up, girl till now still pestering guy to meet up or "just be friend", guy use harsh words (but no vurgarity).
I must admit something before i go on any further or it'll seems all so unfair to the other guys...
I'm born the only child in the family and i grew up in an adult environment where i'm force to be independent at a very young age with little attention from parent nor any relatives. Being a gamer/computer geek gimme a natural Reverse magnet againist all girls thus i've always been dying for girls attention (which is really very sad). So when my girlfriend comes along and ask for all the attention she want, i'm just too happy to give her all i can provide (till a point she actually find me too irritating, nevermind that).
The point is, girls by natural thinks and worry at least twice as much as an average guy in relationship wise... Their very insecure over their place in OUR heart and no amount of flattery, assurance nor quarrel will ever calm their poor souls down. So guys, what i urge you all to do is to do yourself and your girls a favor, give them what they want. Don't wait, find excuses or pretend you never hear her. That few minutes of attention (ok, sometimes maybe few hours) will make her day and whatever left of time will be yours to keep.
Patience is the key, so don't expect miracle the moment you start this, she may actually get more anxious with the sudden change of attitude. Balance out your work and the time you spend on her, baby steps at a time, slowly but surely, she'll realise the effort you put in and she'll definately appreciate you more for it...
I really talk too much today...
And so today's update:
Spend:
- Mon: 5.60 breakfast, 9.10 snacks, 59 for DS game, 13.80 DS accesory, 8.50 shampoo, 1 for drink...
- Today: 60 for a 'lost' game...
Save: more like EARN 70 bucks for extra duty...
Wallet: 42
Coins: 2.40
Current Bank: 730.65
Saving Bank: 3000
Saving (2): 1000
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